All has been fairly quiet on the blog front because sometimes quiet feels better than complaining. I KNOW we are very lucky, and I KNOW I don't have much to complain about. We both have good paying jobs, we have a nice house to live in, we own a decent car, we have families that love us, we don't have any major health issues, our marriage is strong, etc.
That doesn't mean that some days we don't both think "I can't do this one more day." Work becomes stressful, the house is dirty, winter (and S.A.D.) descend, and everything seems unbearable. Whining when you are lucky in the scheme of things seems petty, so silence wins.
To get away from some of the stress, we took a post-Thanksgiving 4 day getaway to our favorite B&B in Bend. Although a mere 3.5 hours away, it's totally different. While Portland is a lush, green, wet valley, Bend is high desert - scrub brush, tumbleweeds, and mountains about 30 minutes away. Most importantly, Bend has SUN. Glorious SUN.
Oh yeah, and it has Cricketwood Bed and Breakfast. We stayed here:
That picture barely shows half of the room. And the enormous bathroom:
The one thing we really miss from our old house is the two person soaker tub, so we definitely took advantage of this 2-person jetted tub (and learned the hard way to go easy on the bubbles!) Cricketwood also has a hot tub (lovely on the cold high desert night), a 9 hole disc golf course, all the wine/beer/snacks you want, tons of movies, lots of games, and a lovely husband and wife that run the place. Our favorite part by far though are the breakfasts. You can pick anything you want off of a menu that puts any restaurant to shame. Our favorites are the baked apple pancake and chocolate chip bread pudding with rum sauce. YUM! Plus you get fresh baked cookies at your door at 7pm.
Although I managed to take zero pictures while we were there, it was just as fantastic as we remembered it. We didn't do much, which was just what we wanted. We walked outside a lot and enjoyed the sun. We watched movies (Bad Teacher = decent, Be Kind Rewind = so awful we only made it 10 minutes in). We spent time discussing a winter vacation inspired by Budget Travel (Belize!).
All in all, a great way to spend 4 days not at work! But alas, work calls. Although for both of us there might be news on the horizon....




































