Bathroom update

We're slowly making the house "ours" and putting our own mark on it. The first room we have mostly done is the main bathroom. Before it was generic builders beige, beige tile, and brown mirrors. I knew I wanted to paint it gray to pull out the gray in the granite counters, and we had decided on a gray/yellow theme. However, when we went on a shower curtain hunt we found a gray/black/red one that we liked a lot, so we changed up our plan. First, some before shots.

Sink before:


Tub before:


Curtain before (with a little of the new paint):


First I spray painted the mirrors. Before they were brown, but they were peeling and weren't in the best shape:
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Two thin coats later, they looked like this while they were drying outside:


In addition to the mirrors and shower curtain, we bought a rack for over the toilet (we have very little counter space), a red bathmat, and a couple of black towels. We spent Friday night painting, and Saturday morning I tried to tackle painting the ceiling white. I quickly learned that doing ceiling cut in work on a highly textured ceiling/wall combo is torture, so I abandoned that and painted the ceiling gray too. The gray reads a little blue in these photos, but it is a true gray in person. We're pretty happy with the sort-of finished product.

Full shot after:


Sink area after:


Curtain after:


For not a lot of money or work, I think it is a pretty big change. In the future we plan to rip out the beige tile and put in something gray or white, maybe paint the cabinets white, install cabinet hardware, and put in a new toilet. I'm keeping my eye out for some artwork and red bathroom accessories as well. As things change I'll share new photos.

Running

A number of Portland bloggers have found me lately (hi!), and I realized it really is time to update a few things and blog again! A few years ago I had another blog. My MIL was a loyal reader, and although it was pretty benign, she would take it upon herself to email my husband and complain about something I had written every.single.time I posted.

I have referred back to that old blog a few time for recipes I like or to share some photos with others, and I decided to link it back up with this blog. There are a TON of older posts now if you're bored :) Thanks to Kellie for the motivation to link them up. My MIL is no longer in my life, and the drama is long since passed, so it's nice to have all of my blogging history in one place. I started off blogging when I moved 3,000 miles from my family and friends, and it is fun to look back and see how much life has changed!

Since I last posted eons ago we have been busy! Not only is it summer (the sweet, sweet time for BBQs with friends, ice cream runs after work, and happy hours on patios), but we've been very busy getting settled in our new place. It wasn't without a few bumps in the road (FOUR attempts for the hardwood guys to get the flooring installed corectly), but overall things are going well. Boxes are unpacked, some painting has happened, and we have plans to tackle the yards (where the weeds grow knee high in less than 2 weeks - HOW DOES THAT HAPPEN??).

We also ran our first 5k. We've be training using Couch to 5k. I have never been a distance runner, even in my track days, so a 5k is really far for me. The program is 9 weeks, but at week 6 (last Friday) we did our first 5k. We had a "goal" of finishing in less than 40 minutes. Yes, I know that is very slow. It was a really hot day, which made it hard, but I finished in 39 minutes and B left me in the dust with an impressive 32 minutes. I've now been out for a week with a hurt back, and I've finally given in and I'm going to a chiropractor for the first time today. I have a Warrior Dash scheduled for Sept 11 with a few coworkers, so I really hope I can start running again this weekend. I still don't like running, but the minor weight loss has been nice, and it does feel good to be in better shape. Pre back issues I was also bike riding to work 3-4 times a week, which was nice too.

A day in the life....

Our day yesterday:
Start out with a hot cup of coffee (heavy on the cream) and homemade blueberry muffins (which we eat before I got a chance to take a picture of them)

After a weak attempt on my part to do Week 5, Day 3 (the first long run) of Couch to 5k, we headed off to a very Portland event - Tour de Coops. Local homes open up their chicken coops so people can come look at them.
Our favorite was this one:

This lady had a beautiful yard, although waaay too many chickens (23):

We're considering getting chickens for the new house next year, and we learned a lot. I'm not worried about the chicken part, but building a coop feels overwhelming! The idea of our own fresh, cage-free, organic eggs is very appealing though.
After a quick trip to the grocery store, we headed home to get ready for the annual costume/birthday party of a friend of B's. This year's theme was Gods and Monsters. B went as Jesus (a huge hit) and I went as a goddess.
Two of my favorites were the woman just weeks away from her due date that was Buddha and the woman that was Vishnu...or was it Shiva? Either way, her costume was awesome and she made it!

This guy was funny and was all over reenacting how the Romans hate Jesus. He had a bow and arrow and randomly shot at B all night.

The entire gang:


This was our first year we went to the party, and we had a blast. It went into the wee hours of the night, and I'm tired today. But packing beckons, so I should get moving.

A new decade

Last Saturday (June 25), I turned 30. As the date approached, I felt neutral about it. I wasn't dreading being 30, but I wasn't excited about it either. However, tons of fantastic people in my life changed that! Not many people are in my office on Fridays, so Thursday morning I walked into work to see this:

and this:

That is FOUR dozen donuts from three different local bakeries, plus 30 donut holes. Another coworker added a dozen bagels to the stack shortly after this picture was taken. Then I got an email of this:

from my coworker that works in the building down the street.

It turns out that this was a huge group effort that involved almost a dozen of my coworkers. I felt so loved! Several people said it was the biggest birthday celebration they had seen at the center....all for me! It definitely cheered me up on the way to 30! I should also add that B sent me the succulent garden you can see in the black planter on the top shelf. I was so surprised to get the delivery on Tuesday, since he is NOT a flower guy. He said it reminded him of our recent trip to Arizona (still need to blog about that) and included a very sweet note.

My actual birthday included the adventure of a lifetime, which was my gift from B. We went skydiving!

It was a beautifully sunny day. From the top of the plane ride (13,000 feet) we could see all the way to Mt. Shasta in Northern California. Although I was prepared to be really scared, it wasn't actually very scary at all. Everything happened so quickly. The "training" was about a minute, and before we knew it we were packed tightly into the plane, strapped to our instructor.

The instructor did all of the work. Once the plane door opened, everyone was out in about 30 seconds. There was no "jumping" involved. He threw us out of the plane before I even had a change to think about it. The first second was disorienting as we tumbled, but I was quickly distracted by how cold it was. My hands were freezing! We were in free fall for about a minute (although it felt like 20 seconds!) and then he pulled the chute. That was a peaceful and quiet float back down.
Part of our group:

B is the green chute, I'm the pink one:


Everyone asks us about the landing. It was very smooth for both of us. You keep your legs up until the instructor says to stand up. It was really easy and not jarring or rough in any way. All in all, I'm really glad I did it. I don't think I'll do it again, but I would recommend that people try it at least once. It was quite an adventure, and a great way to kick off 30!

"I'm ready to settle down"

B is a wanderer. Many times I've heard him referred to as a tumbleweed. Committing to anything is a challenge for him, and I've joked that I'm surprised that he decided to commit to me. To his credit, he says that's the one smart decision he made. :)

I was surprised when he broached the idea of house hunting. We sold our house about a year ago and were pretty sure we wouldn't be buying again any time soon or at all. We've lived in 2 places since then, and both have been plagued by noisy neighbors and shoddy construction. On the bright side, we love our current area. We gradually started looking at open houses in our neighborhood, and B was leading the charge. I questioned him about his motivation, and he said "I'm finally ready to settle down." Needless to say, my jaw nearly hit the floor. The world wanderer had decided he was willing to plant. In "my" town. Where I want to be. Where he doesn't necessarily want to be, but where he knows I'm happy and fulfilled. The compromise if we stay in Portland is that he can spend a few weeks in someplace sunny every winter, and I'm okay with that.

We made an offer on a cute house. It was a decent offer, but the sellers countered at full price, no concessions, since it had been on the market only 2 days. Sweet revenge that it's a month later and they still have no other offer!

We put in another offer on a really nice, fully remodeled house that's 2.5 miles from both of our works. They countered, we wavered, and they immediately came back agreeing with our original offer. We're currently in the inspection negotiation period. Most things were fine, but the radon came back slightly high. Now we're trying to decide what to do about it, but I'm 99% sure everything will turn out just fine because the seller is willing to negotiate. So behold our new house:


We're set to close in mid-July. In the meantime, we're headed on vacation next week and couldn't be more excited! Sedona/Grand Canyon/Vegas here we come!

Weekend fun

After spending many weekends with little down time, we took two weekends "off" and didn't schedule any time with friends or family. It was nice to have more free/lazy time, and it made us excited to go out with friends this past weekend. Bryan has friends that are a husband/wife couple that we always like spending time with. Due to our various schedules, it's hard to get together, and it never happens often enough. We went out with them on Saturday and had a blast.

First we started at their house for some beers and chatting. We then headed to Ethiopian food for dinner. It's unique because they don't give you plates or silverware. Everything is eaten with this spongey crepe-like bread (I should know the name of it, but I don't). Luckily our friends were in the know, so they just ordered this for the table. I don't know the Ethiopian terms, but starting form the yellow stuff near the top it is something yellow (I don't remember what that was!), green beans, lentils, cabbage, kale, and minced beef with cheese. Overall it was very good, although B and I agreed we had expected a bit more spice.

After dinner we headed to Whiskey Soda Lounge for drinks. This is the bar/waiting area for the famous Pok Pok, although we were just stopping by to try out the drink menu. They had some very unique options. Mine is the silver martini glass, which was "Hunny": fresh squeezed grapefruit juice with lime, honey drinking vinegar, and tequila. After the initial sour jolt, it was very good. At $9 a pop I wasn't having more than one though!
Portland is known for its food carts. As if we weren't full enough from dinner and drinks, we decided to add some dessert to to already awesomely gluttonous day. We walked from Whiskey Soda Lounge to the nearby cart pod. On a recommendation from our friends, we tried The Pie Spot.
Apple pie, marionberry pie, and chocolate hazelnut pie. They were clearly made in a muffin tin, so it was the perfect size. Mine was the marionberry one, and it was fantastic! I would definitely go back again.

We then headed back to our friend's house, chatted for a couple more hours and played some cards. We got home and went to bed just before 1:30am, which is crazy late for us. We had such a good time. It's always nice to have couple friends that you click with.

Smartphones

I do not own a smartphone. Admittedly, it's mostly because I'm cheap and don't want to pay $30 per month (plus taxes) on the data plan. However, in recent months I've really started to hate smartphones. The average smartphone user within 10 years of my age seems to care WAY more about what OTHERS are doing (Facebook, game scores, chatting, etc) than what they are currently doing.

Just a few days ago we went to a Portland Trailblazers game. The entire row in front of us was some former frat brothers. At some point during the game, every.single.one of them took out their phone and was browsing Facebook. I'm not talking about during halftime. I mean during the middle of the most intense parts of the game. They spent more time wondering what others were doing rather than enjoying the game and their time with friends.

I've been at concerts where people were watching sports events on their smartphones rather than paying attention to the band. I've been out to eat and seen couples on a date where one (or both) of them texts during the entire meal. I've been on cruises where people use their smartphones until the exact last second that they can. I've seen more people than I can count surfing the web while driving. Twitter is the dumbest invention of late, and I'm astounded to hear how many people are addicted to it. I see Facebook status updates literally every day where someone was supposedly "spending time" with their family. My favorite one lately was the hour by hour update of "Sue Smith is at XYZ restaurant" while on a romantic vacation with her husband. PUT AWAY THE DAMN PHONE AND PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR HUSBAND.

Why can't people untether themselves and enjoy the moment? Is life that awful that you constantly have to be seeing what other people are doing via your smartphone? God forbid you wait for a table at a restaurant and don't check your email while you're waiting!

I feel grateful that I married a man that barely even checks his phone if you call him. He goes days without remembering to take it to work, and it is often left behind when we go out to eat, to the movies, or just for a walk together. Why? Because we go out to BE TOGETHER. We don't go out to then see what others are doing. I feel sad that people are unable to enjoy being present at what they are doing.

So to all of the addicts out there, try giving up the smartphone whenever you are with other people. You might find you actually have a good time not being reachable (i.e. interrupted) every 5 minutes. Trust me...the world will be a better place if you keep your 140 characters to yourself. Better yet, use those characters to tell your friends and family how much you like spending uninterrupted time with them. Then follow through and leave your smartphone at home. They will thank you for it.